A close knit relationship

It is a terrible feeling if someone leaves you.Is it?
Someone you love???
A`person is capable of loving only that person in which he worships his ideals,his values,thus,in turn in which he sees his reflection.There is no other way a person could love and be loved.Just this.And if no values exist for you,then u'll get attracted to another depraved person,an altruist or a person who believes in giving love to the unworthy(could be in any form).Your choice reflects you as a person in every aspect.The kind of people you be with reflects your ideals and not even a single contradiction must exist in such relationships.It is like a close knit circle.The members form the circle and ultimately meet up one another with the same ideals set in their minds;but if they fail to meet then their exists some depravity somewhere which must be excluded.So,if a person leaves you,it completely shows his lack of compatability with your ideals.After all he must be a reflection of your consciousness and being with you would only result in his act of lying to himself,which in turn would destroy him eventually.When happiness is the sole purpose of life then why would he repudiate his own happiness by being with such a person.So the best option is to leave that person.And this must be accepted with great understanding on both the sides.I think it's a wonderful feeling if 'such a being' leaves you.It is terrible for only those who have no ethics set in their lives,those who are incapable of thinking and if someone 'like this' leaves them then they reach upto a level of taking revenge.
But,yes I think it is very important for two such people to clarify all this in between themselves.It is a must requirement and people who are capable of thinking would definitely understand such a state in their relationship.At times,although it is of no use trying to tell all this to unthinkables.They say-'How does it matter the kind of people you be with'.They could never understand this.So just leave them without any explanations.They would feel terrible for the first few months but later on would develop such hard feelings against that person and would try their level best to prove him wrong.It is is such an amusing gesture!
But,if someone whose ideals match with you and leaves you then believe me at some point of time they'll again come together.Such people are capable of loving each other so much that at some phase of life that love develops into reverence.They deny 'it' to each other due the very thought that they need someone in their lives(totally unbeareable to them),but ultimately fail to do so and end up being with each other.
One case,for which no forgiveness is ever possible is when the person 'pretends' to understand your ideals,'pretends' to support your every thought with his own thoughts,never denies anything but ultimately ends up following none of them.Sooner or later his actions betray his intentions.His contradictions act as a limelight and justify his actions.Finally the consequence is always separation,but mind you it hurts a lot for the only reason that at one point of time you end up giving your ego to him.All others are forgivable but these.
For me,this is the only way relationships should be held,a rare sight,yet it is there.